Monday, January 24, 2011

January Bridal Shows




Here are
the last
Wedding Shows
we will be
attending in
January.


Brea Community Center
Saturday, January 29
11:00-3:00
695 E. Madison Way, Brea

OC Bridal Fair presents
Promenade & Gardens
Cuisine by The Turnip Rose
Sunday, January 30 11:00-3:00
1570 Scenic Avenue, Costa Mesa,

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Bridal Show at Trump National Golf Club





This is
always
one of
the best
shows in
South Bay.




Trump National Golf Club
January 23 • 10:00 - 3:00
On the Palos Verdes Peninsula
One Ocean Trails Drive
Rancho Palos Verdes
(310) 303-3220 · (888) 799-GOLF
www.TrumpNational.com



Hope to
see you
there...

Friday, January 7, 2011

Bridal Shows 2011



Happy New Year!

Congratulations to
all engaged Brides!

As a Bride, you should
take advantage of all the
many wonderful Bridal shows,
and attend at least a couple
of them, with your husband-to-be,
Mom, or some of your Bridal party.

The shows can be a lot of fun as well
as informative. You can talk to a
variety of different Wedding services,
get some new ideas, and have some of your
questions answered all in one day, at one
location, within just a few hours.

However, not all Bridal shows are created equal!

It is a good idea to contact the facility
in which the show is being held, or the
producers, prior to the show, to get a list
of the vendors participating in the show.
The exhibitors should be listed on the show
producers website, along with directions,
fashion show times and other information to
help you plan the day before arriving.
You want to be sure that there will be vendors
there that you are interested in meeting.

There is usually a charge to attend a Bridal
show, but if you pre-register for a Bridal
show, most times you will receive a discount
on the entry fee, and sometimes pre-printed
mailing labels for you to use at the show.

When you attend a Bridal show, to make your
life much easier, and for a more enjoyable
experience, always remember to
BRING MAILING LABELS, with your name and
mailing address on them.

Another good idea, is to create an e-mail
address specifically for Wedding information.
This will help keep you organized, and have all
the information for your Wedding services in
one place, separate from other e-mails.

If you have time you can make labels,
including your name, mailing address,
e-mail address, wedding date and grooms name.
Almost every booth will have something to fill
out with your information for some type of
give-away, or to contact after the show.

I only know of one Bridal show producer who
gives these labels to Brides if you register
in advance, and it is such a great idea.
It really makes registering for give-aways so
much easier for both the Brides filling out
the cards, and the vendors trying to read
their writing!

You want to be able to view a few different
photographers Bridal books, watch videos of
other Weddings ceremonies and receptions,
taste samples of cake, see DJ’s in action,
get ideas for your flowers, and see a lot
of products and services that you hadn’t
even thought of!

A lot of vendors offer discounts, or free
merchandise when you book them from a Bridal
show. There is usually a fashion show to enjoy.
Although you might not find your gown or
bridesmaids dresses from the show, it’s fun to
watch and get ideas of what styles you may want
to consider. Prizes are almost always given out
before and after the fashion show, and usually you
need to be present to win. Sometimes these are
some really great prizes given out by the vendors
participating in the show.

You should mark the business cards of the people
you want to contact later for a consultation.
Even though you think you will remember them,
sometimes it’s hard to remember everyone that
you talked to after the show.

The Wedding Guide attends all of the Bridal shows
in the South Bay, Long Beach, Los Angeles and
Orange County areas.

Be sure to stop by our booth to say “Hi” and to
pick up the newest copy of our Wedding Guide publication.

Remember to BRING YOUR MAILING LABELS!

Happy planning, and we will see you at the next Bridal show...

by Debbie Christensen,
Publisher of The Wedding Guide

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Congratulations Brides-To-Be




It’s the Holidays,
and that usually
means couples all
over the world
are getting
engaged!

If you are a
Brides-To-Be,
planning your
upcoming Wedding,

Congratulations!

What a great way to
start out the new year!

And there are so many
Bridal shows
in January to choose from.
Choose wisely, because some are
better than others.
We recommend all the shows that
we will be attending which are
listed under Bridal Shows on our
website.

These snow scenes are beautiful,
but it sure is nice to be outside
in the warm sunshine like today.
Days like today and yesterday, are
the reason we all love living in
sunny Southern California!
The snow is fun to visit, but living
in it every day is a different story.
For comfort, I’ll take a beach scene
over a snow scene any day!
Snowboarding works great in the sand.
Sand is a lot like snow, but much warmer.

We hope your Christmas was just as
wonderful as ours was, and that you all
have a safe, and very Happy New Year.

Try to slow your life down, relax and
enjoy the rest of this year with your
Family & Friends.

We’ll see you in January...

Friday, December 17, 2010

The Importance of Stopping



The Importance of Stopping

Your body is
meant to be
in a state of
balance,
Yin and Yang,
activity and
rest, being
and doing.
Your body is
constantly
giving you
feedback about
the necessity of stopping
(Via feelings of fatigue, stress, etc,).
If you do not pay attention to your body’s
messages, you may just get a cold. People
that have truly learned that art of not
paying attention to their body may develop
more severe physical or emotional problems.
(In addition to not feeling well, there are
time costs to not being in optimum physical
health-i.e.-doctors visits, needing more rest
and sleep than normal, etc.) There is a reason
people feel so good after a Yoga class or
meditating or a walk in nature.
They are giving the body what it needs.
The body needs you to stop.

What is so great about stopping is that
when you go again you are more efficient,
productive and creative. As a matter of
fact, one of the biggest ways people
LOSE TIME is to be constantly busy.
There are many cycles and rhythms in life
and the more we attune to our own energy rhythms,
the more we will allow ourselves to stop. How many
people do you know that are happy being constantly busy?
Yes, there is a temporarily relief to get one more thing
done on your list. However, develop the trust and faith
that if you slow down you will give yourself MORE TIME.

Stopping is a way to receive from life. Take in life;
take in your partner. Savor your food; do not eat to fast.
Enjoy your children. Remember the real reasons why you do
the things you do. It is probably to enjoy your life more.

So stop, take a nice deep breath in, exhale all the way out
and slow down. See how much your life improves.

by Todd Creager, Relationship Therapist
www.toddcreager.com

Friday, November 19, 2010

Weddings Become Marriages




Getting Married
should be about
the Marriage and
not just about
the Wedding.

So many Brides
get caught up
in planning a
perfect Wedding,
they don’t think
about the “Ever After”.

I am a firm believer in
Marriage and “Happily Ever After”.

That doesn’t mean that everything in
your life after your Wedding will always
be perfect, but if your expectations aren’t
unrealistic you can have a very happy life
together.

When you go through the good times, it is so
wonderful to have someone to share and enjoy
those times with, and when times are tough,
you have someone by your side to help you,
and you can work through them together.

The secret is, not having any secrets from
each other.

That doesn’t mean that you need to report to
each other on every little detail of your life,
but that you always share your feelings and
opinions with each other.

You can agree to disagree, but at least you are talking.

Pick your battles carefully, everything is not worth
fighting about.

Starting with the day you say “I Do” to each other,
work together as a unit and you can accomplish so
much more in life.

Don’t try to change each other, just accept each others
faults and focus on your strengths.

Work to bring out the best in your partner, and allow
them to bring out the best in you as well.

Always make time for each other, and remember why you
fell in love, and you should stay in love for the rest
of your lives!


A few “Words of Wisdom”
shared with you from
Debbie Christensen, Publisher
of The Wedding Guide.

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Laws Concerning Marriage




A man and
woman must
follow certain
laws when they
marry.
The United States
and Canada have
basically the same
marriage laws.
Neither nation has
federal marriage
laws, but each
state and province
has its own
regulations.

In all except four states,
both the man and woman must
be at least 18 years old to
marry without parental consent.
Nebraska and Wyoming require
a couple to be at least 19.
Mississippi and Rhode Island
have a minimum age of 21.
Most states allow people to marry
as young as 16 with parental consent.
In some states, a person under age
16 needs a judge's permission to marry.

According to law, both the man and
woman must freely consent to marry.
If a person is forced or tricked into
marrying against his or her will, a
judge will annul (cancel) the marriage.

State laws prohibit close relatives from
marrying each other. Laws also forbid
a person to marry if he or she is married
to someone else. A person who marries
a second time while a first marriage is still
in effect commits the crime of bigamy.

Some states permit a couple to marry even
if the bride or groom cannot be present at
the wedding ceremony. However, another
person must serve as a proxy (substitute)
for the absent bride or groom.
This type of marriage is called marriage by proxy.

How much fun would that be?

If an unmarried couple live together as
husband and wife, a court may declare
them married after a certain period of time.
The time period varies among the states
that permit such common-law marriages.
It is usually several years. A couple do
not have to have a license or wedding
ceremony for a common-law marriage.

Again I ask, how fun is that, without any celebration!